Sunday 1 March 2015

Steps to Making A Good First Impression ( Part one)

People often say that the first impression you get of a person usually lasts long in ones mind and is often hard to change. So most of the time, we find ourselves trying to create a very good first impression in order to get an approval or a job.
Here are a few steps to guide you in making a good first impression:

Be Positive
A positive attitude will most of the time make everything around you be positive. Positive mind set will keep you in a good mood and thus you end up emitting positive vibe and energy to the one person you are meeting for the first time.
Don't go out condemning yourself and help the person create a wrong impression about you.

Do not be afraid
Fear often makes us anxious and jittery and ends up making us do what we are not suppose to do. Being afraid of what others might think about our look, our manner of approach, even our voice when we speak, will just help us to mess things up. Don't get me wrong, now its good to take these things into consideration, but do not let your mind dwell on them too much and start getting unnecessarily nervous. People would always think what they want irrespective of how much you try to show yourself to be approved. They have their own minds and different opinions will be formed, you just have to carry yourself the way it seems fit, so long as you know that you are doing something right.

3 comments:

  1. What if trying to be yourself, you end up pissing people off. What can be done?

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    1. Hi, in life we can never please everybody, our actions might not seem right to some while others will praise us. So, since you can't please all,just do what is right and leave the rest for God. You can also check my article on "just be yourself" for more insight. Thanks

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    2. Hi, in life we can never please everybody, our actions might not seem right to some while others will praise us. So, since you can't please all,just do what is right and leave the rest for God. You can also check my article on "just be yourself" for more insight. Thanks

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