The Eleventh Hour( Procrastination)

Most times, it's good to look beyond what is in front of us and do what we ought to do now, rather than wait until it chokes us before we try to cough it out. Using wisdom is an integral part of a persons life if they want to be successful, they do not always have to be told what to do before they do it and early preparation helps a person to be focused and well prepared for unforeseen circumstances.
Although most times, things happen beyond our control and we find ourselves in very tight corners not knowing what to do. That, is not your fault as you had no control over what happened. But what about the times we knew that we had to do something now, but we relax and decide to save it for later. We develop an attitude of procrastination and decide to work only when the dealine is staring us right in the face and we got no other option than to work.
Procrastination is a disease that not only makes your work less than it ought to be, but something that diastabilizes you and makes you miss amazing opportunities. Nowadays, I find out that students do not pick up their books until its time for a test or examination. They hurriedly read through an entire terms work in one night and expect to get the same grade as someone who has been studing for months. Most times they fall ill and are not able to write the exam, thereby failing and missing out on what should have been achieved.

Life is all about preparation, plan and hardwork. A person who prepares now for the future has better chances of making it in life than one who waits until the time is near before acting. Below are a few reasons why we should all plan ahead and not wait for the eleventh hour before we act:

• Focus
A person that plans ahead has focus and knows where he is going.  He has his mind set on a goal and is working towards achieving that goal. Though there might be distractions on the way, he knows what is in stock and do not let anything come between him and his dreams.

•Confidence
For a person to be confident about something, you know that he is sure of himself and what he has brought to the table. He has worked hard on a topic and covered all that needs to be covered so the confidence he exudes will be far greater than that of a person who started preparing "minutes or hours" to the time of presentation.

•Ahead of the game
A person with more knowledge and better preparation will surely be ahead of his peers. It's a fact. The farmer who has laboured day and night on his field will surely have a better looking farm and crops than one who slept throughout the planting season and is waiting for near harvest time to check on his crops. And will surely know more about the weather and crops and pest that needs to be taken care of before harvest, thereby having a more bountiful harvest than the lazy one. That is if he even has anything to show forth.

• Achievers
Peolpe who prepare early have a better chance of succeeding. Their hard work, determination and zeal go before them and speak for them and success is certainly their portion as they reach out to grab it.

So, what is that thing you have been leaving for the eleventh hour to do?Get up and do it now. It won't take anything from you, rather it will give you satisfaction, rest and time to think about other important things rather than worrying yourself over something that should have been done.
I know that some of us might say that we just don't have the strength for it now and that we'll do it later, but I want you to know that the strenght won't come if you don't get up from where you are and make a move. Just try it see what's in stock for those who work now instead of procrastinating.

Thank you for reading. God bless.

Just be Yourself

Often, I wonder what is means to just be yourself. People always say that, but what does it really entail? If you are going for an interview, they say relax and just be yourself, going to meet his parents for the first time, relax and just be yourself, going on a first date or joining a group, school, work etc, they say just be yourself. It has been used too many a time that it has become a cliche. So today,  I would like to share with you, my perception on being yourself or rather, myself.
One thing i have learned over the years, is that people would always complain about any and everything you do. Its natural. You cannot be loved by everybody no matter how much you try, and also, everyone cannot hate you, no matter how bad you might seem. So when asked to be yourself, endeavour to show the stuff you are made of, the way God created you. Due to circumstances of life, we tend to develop certain characteristics that may not go down well with other individuals, we tend to hide behind unseemly behaviors and act out on others in other to protect ourselves, but with time, these becomes part of our weaknesses and we realize that it not only brings us down and dampens our mood, but also everyone that comes in contact with us. We all have issues and the best we can do for us, is to work on those issues(weaknesses) and turn them into strengths, learning from our mistakes and becoming positive individuals that impacts positively into any person we come across.But when trying to be strong, please try to be as humble as you can be, remember pride goes before a fall.

Knowing your temperament also helps in being yourself. Realize what you are and what you are not, distinguish yourself from others and do not try to copy or be like someone else. A photocopy my dear will never be like the original, they might look alike, but a fake is a fake and people would see through you. God has created every individual beautiful and wonderful, with their own golden attributes that is unique, so instead of trying hard to copy someone's uniqueness, why don't you work on, develop yourself and be an inspiration to others.

An introvert should not try to be like the extrovert, because you are simply not. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert and people actually admire you, although it might not seem so, but they do. All you have to do is work on your shyness because most introverts are shy( do not let it become a weakness). I know because I am an introvert. I prefer being quite and observant, rather than talk nonstop. Its natural for me but that does not mean I'm shy or boring, i can strike up an interesting conversation and actually discuss for a long period of time, but this does not happen often.

To the extrovert, please  be the active talker and lively person that you are, the world actually needs you to be happy and filled with laughter, but always remember to know your limit and do not over talk or you might end up saying things that are inappropriate or offensive unintentionally.

At the end of the day, I think being yourself, is being the way God has created you to be, knowing your temperament and working with it.  Using your strenght to positively affect the society and acknowledging your weakness and working on it to live a healthy and happy life. Not giving in to peer pressure, and doing what is right in God's eye even when everyone around you thinks otherwise.

Thank you for reading, I love you.

Female qoute of the day

I guess at the end of the day, all women like to be appreciated and treated with respect and kindness.

Sofia Vergara

Healthy Living ( Iron up)

Women need iron for their bodies to function properly and so are expected to eat foods rich in iron, especially women that are pre- menopausal because of our monthly circle. Regular intake of iron helps in regulating cells and allows for good health. And defiency in iron leads to poor body function, weak immune system and fatigue.
The recommended daily intake of iron for women is 18 milligrams while for pregnant women, is 27 milligrams ( because of the growing embryo).
Foods rich in iron are: meat, cereal, beans.

Bible passage of the day

She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy. Proverbs 31:20

Mother Teresa ( A woman of virtue)

Mother Teresa was  a nun who dedicated her entire life to helping and serving the poor and homeless. Most of her years  was spent in Calcutta, India where she founded the Missionaries of charity, a congregation devoted to helping people in need.
Did you know that Mother Teresa was awarded the Nobel peace prize  in 1979 and she asked that the money she got from the prize be given to the poor? Not surprising right?
Well she was a living saint or as some would say an angel that showed love to people who did not have love from others and that has made her a symbol of  charitable selfless work.
Mother Teresa through her selfless charity should be a  great example for all women to give love no matter how small it may seem.

Qoutes from Mother Teresa

It is not how much we do, but how much love we put in doing.
It is not how much we give, but how much love we put in giving.

Not all of us  can do great things,
But we can do small things  with great love.


Source-    Biography online

Bible passage of the day

For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29: 11.

This quote from the bible should be a source of encouragement for all who feel down and lost, thinking that God has abandoned them. Well you know what? He hasn't and he is probably waiting for the right time to do his work in your life and like He said, his plans will prosper you, give you hope and a great future, so my friend, no matter the situation you are in and no matter what life throws at you, just know, believe and have faith that your father in heaven who is mighty bigger than any problem is setting something extraordinary to give you that which will prosper and make your life better.

Prayer
Dear Lord, thank you for your word today. Father please give me the strength to stand firm and believe that you care for me and is helping me solve all my problems as I cast all my cares upon you. In Jesus name.

Inspirational Quote of the day

Think like a queen. A queen is not afraid to fail. Failure is another steppingstone to greatness.         Oprah Winfrey.

Bible quote of the day

Let everything that has breath praise the Lord. Praise ye the Lord. (Psalm 150:6)

The virtuous woman (proverbs 31)

"Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies."(pro 31:10)
The bible extentively brings to our knowledge all the attributes or a virtuous woman. From the fact that she is trust worthy and good, industrious and hardworking, strong and kind, and most of all fears the lord. And because of these, she positively affects all those around her, making life a lot easier for her husband, children and other members of her household. Being like the woman in proverbs 31 should be an utmost desire for all women for want to positively impact on the lives of people and change the world for the better. I pray that may the good Lord help and direct us as we strive to be like  her and may our efforts be crowned with blessings and unending joy. Amen.